crypto on Nostr: I never said anything about "zero sum" or anything like that. All I've repeatedly ...

I never said anything about "zero sum" or anything like that. All I've repeatedly tried to get across is that you are attempting to live in a way your brain is not wired for and you think if you ignore it it will go away. It's there for a reason. Once you realize the reason is finding your place in a social heirarchy and that our current social system is too expansive for most people to find their place in...then you see the solution. It's creating a social circle you fit in and can grow in. Some call it an "echo chamber" or "tribalism". I call it family and community. If you are having a hard time with comparing yourself to others...it's because you aren't living up to your potential or you are comparing yourself to people that are so far out of reach that it's a waste of time. You should be able to compare yourself in a way that's healthy within your tribe instead of trying to convince yourself you don't need to change for the better because comparison in and of itself is evil.