clambot on Nostr: Know what really sucks? Having a super low sex drive. It's a lot harder than I reckon ...
Know what really sucks? Having a super low sex drive.
It's a lot harder than I reckon most people realize.
I've been in a lot of relationships, and they all fail eventually because of this. Typically things will start out great, I'll be sexually active for like the first month, then lose all interest in it. We still do all the cutesy things like going out, hitting up fesitvals, etc... but eventually the girl will start to think I'm not attracted to her because I never initiate (can't really blame her), and shit spirals from there.
Maybe it's because I always go for the conventionally attractive ones who end up having a high sex drive. I guess that would make sense? If someone's sexually active, they're likely going to put a lot more effort into their appearance to be sexually attractive to potential partners. Who knows..
Anyway I started checking compatibility with my matches early on before anything got serious, and watched my dating pool evaporate. I'm definitely the outlier here.
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It's a lot harder than I reckon most people realize.
I've been in a lot of relationships, and they all fail eventually because of this. Typically things will start out great, I'll be sexually active for like the first month, then lose all interest in it. We still do all the cutesy things like going out, hitting up fesitvals, etc... but eventually the girl will start to think I'm not attracted to her because I never initiate (can't really blame her), and shit spirals from there.
Maybe it's because I always go for the conventionally attractive ones who end up having a high sex drive. I guess that would make sense? If someone's sexually active, they're likely going to put a lot more effort into their appearance to be sexually attractive to potential partners. Who knows..
Anyway I started checking compatibility with my matches early on before anything got serious, and watched my dating pool evaporate. I'm definitely the outlier here.
FeelsBadMan.jpg