chiefmonkey on Nostr: Without knowing that (and pretend I'm a normie) I am inclined to just use the biggest ...

Without knowing that (and pretend I'm a normie) I am inclined to just use the biggest names I recognise like damus and I am also going to include any paid relay because I'm assuming they're going to do a better job than a free service

Lastly (as a normie) I'm inclined to simply copy the same three relays from the outbox list to the inbox list because I don't understand the difference

I'm only half being serious here (playing devils advocate) because I do appreciate what you are trying acheive but as a user the app is really making me think...

I just want to set it and forget it... I'd be happy if this was automated for me

I've paid for nostr.wine so I'm just going to put them in every section of that relay setup page 1st then damus second and another big name 3rd

Not too sure if thus Feedback useful to you but I hope it helps