:neuro: Pixy's Journey :v_bi: on Nostr: Ugh.... 😔 My mental health is struggling with stuff... Not just knowing I need a ...
Ugh.... 😔 My mental health is struggling with stuff...
Not just knowing I need a surgery soon...
But...
I've bought a house, many moons ago, with my then partner. We've been separated for almost 13 years now. But my name is still on the papers... And it seems my ex makes a mess of the payments. And I am still partially responsible for the bills, according to law, even though I've not lived there for almost 13 years.... And it's shitty!
If all goes as planned, the house should be sold this year, soon I hope, and then I'll finally be free!
But I keep getting these postal mails about my ex not paying in time and all that.
And now they're sending me a "registered email" (never heard of it), about those payments.... And it freaks me out!
I've not opened it yet, wanna discuss with the ex first...
I just want that house to be sold and to be done with the mess, finally, after all these years.
I can't pay for that house. I can just pay for my rental one. I'm not rich, and I am freaking out that this way my ex has been handling things may end up costing me money that I don't have!
So now my brain is on fire, my heart is pounding, and I just want that stupid house to be sold and gone! 😔
Ugh..... Why..... 😔
Sorry, had to rant... Don't really need advise as there's nothing much I can do but hope for the best. Don't have the means, money and energy wise, nor the mental capability, to deal with this...
Not just knowing I need a surgery soon...
But...
I've bought a house, many moons ago, with my then partner. We've been separated for almost 13 years now. But my name is still on the papers... And it seems my ex makes a mess of the payments. And I am still partially responsible for the bills, according to law, even though I've not lived there for almost 13 years.... And it's shitty!
If all goes as planned, the house should be sold this year, soon I hope, and then I'll finally be free!
But I keep getting these postal mails about my ex not paying in time and all that.
And now they're sending me a "registered email" (never heard of it), about those payments.... And it freaks me out!
I've not opened it yet, wanna discuss with the ex first...
I just want that house to be sold and to be done with the mess, finally, after all these years.
I can't pay for that house. I can just pay for my rental one. I'm not rich, and I am freaking out that this way my ex has been handling things may end up costing me money that I don't have!
So now my brain is on fire, my heart is pounding, and I just want that stupid house to be sold and gone! 😔
Ugh..... Why..... 😔
Sorry, had to rant... Don't really need advise as there's nothing much I can do but hope for the best. Don't have the means, money and energy wise, nor the mental capability, to deal with this...