Neon on Nostr: Another case of too ace/too aro to realize things: I just realized, ten years later, ...
Another case of too ace/too aro to realize things:
I just realized, ten years later, that I might have given the wrong impression to this random guy I had a conversation with at the hotel lobby at 4am in the morning because when he tried to compliment me on my "beauty", I told him I was sleepy and wanted to get back to my own room.
He followed me up! I was very uncomfortable! I took him to the door to a room that was definitely not my room because he wouldn't let me go up by myself!
And then he pursed his lips and waited for a kiss, while I just stared at him in utter confusion. He eventually opened his eyes again and then I told him I had zero intention to kiss back because that was weird. The good thing is, he did apologize and leave me alone.
BUT I HAD ALWAYS BEEN CONFUSED!! TODAY! TODAY I REALIZED!
... was it because I said I was sleepy and wanted to go back to my room?
I just realized, ten years later, that I might have given the wrong impression to this random guy I had a conversation with at the hotel lobby at 4am in the morning because when he tried to compliment me on my "beauty", I told him I was sleepy and wanted to get back to my own room.
He followed me up! I was very uncomfortable! I took him to the door to a room that was definitely not my room because he wouldn't let me go up by myself!
And then he pursed his lips and waited for a kiss, while I just stared at him in utter confusion. He eventually opened his eyes again and then I told him I had zero intention to kiss back because that was weird. The good thing is, he did apologize and leave me alone.
BUT I HAD ALWAYS BEEN CONFUSED!! TODAY! TODAY I REALIZED!
... was it because I said I was sleepy and wanted to go back to my room?