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How to win in a marriage đ¤
Tell the other ALL your secrets.
Tell the other person your hopes and dreams, what you like and dislike, and as soon as something bothers you.
Yes, thereâs nuance to the sharing of secrets, but do it as soon as possible.
If youâre at a dinner party, wait until youâre alone, and let the other person know about anything that bothered you, but also ask if they can help you by letting them know how they can do it better next time, KINDLY.
Tell them about the things that you liked, big and small.
While at the party, celebrate each other, instead of cutting the other down.
This is not the place to air your grievances, do that when youâre alone! And to the other person, so they have a chance to fix it.
Tell the other ALL your secrets.
Tell the other person your hopes and dreams, what you like and dislike, and as soon as something bothers you.
Yes, thereâs nuance to the sharing of secrets, but do it as soon as possible.
If youâre at a dinner party, wait until youâre alone, and let the other person know about anything that bothered you, but also ask if they can help you by letting them know how they can do it better next time, KINDLY.
Tell them about the things that you liked, big and small.
While at the party, celebrate each other, instead of cutting the other down.
This is not the place to air your grievances, do that when youâre alone! And to the other person, so they have a chance to fix it.