bitcoinnotarock on Nostr: Hey dave can you explain how the nostr relay helps keep the network decentralized? ...

Hey dave (npub1tsg…htk4) can you explain how the nostr relay helps keep the network decentralized? Say I am writing to three relays, one of damus, one of primal and one my own; wouldn’t most everyone just get the events I publish from the damus and primal relays? why would anyone subscribe to events coming out of my own relay ?