Amber on Nostr: I'd just like to remind everyone that just because you do not see things from your ...

I'd just like to remind everyone that just because you do not see things from your perspective, that doesn't mean they don't exist or that they do not happen. I get that you may be skeptical of someone's experiences but there is a fine line in trying to verify that experience and outright denying that it happens at all. Please please please don't be so quick to shut other people up because their experiences don't align with yours. I am so fucking sick of it, this is why black queers don't feel comfortable here. this is why there's not as many transmasc individuals here. I'm not saying you should blindly believe people, but instead of quickly dismissing it outright take it with a grain of salt. have it at the back of your mind, see if other people experience it. Don't dismiss the idea entirely, and especially don't tell people speaking about their experiences that they must be making it up because you haven't seen it.