visionisgmi on Nostr: Why she ghosts u 1. She found someone else 2. Fantasy doesn’t match reality - she ...
Why she ghosts u
1. She found someone else
2. Fantasy doesn’t match reality - she was in love with an idealized image of you rather than you as a real person. As you consistently fail to meet her unrealistic expectations she may end the relationship abruptly to try to make her fantasies come true with someone else
3. If her dating history shows a pattern of short term relationships don’t make the mistake of thinking you will be the exception
4. She needs novelty. Driven by a need for constant stimulation and validation she discards you to reignite and begin seeking out fresh sources of excitement
5. Not playing your role right.
6. Lack of emotional investment rooted in inability to form empathic trusting relationships. Because her emotional investment is shallow she finds it relatively easy to disengage from you without significant guilt or regret
7. Testing boundaries. If you set boundaries she may ghost because it’s too much trouble to contain and control you.
8. You become too needy. Narcissists are self-centred and lack genuine empathy so if you focus on your own needs or face difficulties this personality type ghosts. Because helping and supporting you is too burdensome she avoids engaging in any emotional complexities that don’t serve her interests
9. Fear of exposure and self protection. By disappearing without explanation she can evade accountability and avoid confronting her own insecurities or the reality of her toxic behaviour patterns. This allows her to preserve her sense of self and sense of superiority while eliminating the source of her perceived rejection and any threats.
1. She found someone else
2. Fantasy doesn’t match reality - she was in love with an idealized image of you rather than you as a real person. As you consistently fail to meet her unrealistic expectations she may end the relationship abruptly to try to make her fantasies come true with someone else
3. If her dating history shows a pattern of short term relationships don’t make the mistake of thinking you will be the exception
4. She needs novelty. Driven by a need for constant stimulation and validation she discards you to reignite and begin seeking out fresh sources of excitement
5. Not playing your role right.
6. Lack of emotional investment rooted in inability to form empathic trusting relationships. Because her emotional investment is shallow she finds it relatively easy to disengage from you without significant guilt or regret
7. Testing boundaries. If you set boundaries she may ghost because it’s too much trouble to contain and control you.
8. You become too needy. Narcissists are self-centred and lack genuine empathy so if you focus on your own needs or face difficulties this personality type ghosts. Because helping and supporting you is too burdensome she avoids engaging in any emotional complexities that don’t serve her interests
9. Fear of exposure and self protection. By disappearing without explanation she can evade accountability and avoid confronting her own insecurities or the reality of her toxic behaviour patterns. This allows her to preserve her sense of self and sense of superiority while eliminating the source of her perceived rejection and any threats.