Yogthos on Nostr: matrix is a lot better all around in my opinion. I find for friends/family it's easy ...

matrix is a lot better all around in my opinion. I find for friends/family it's easy enough to just spin up your own server too.

I've been running a Zulip server for a group of friends, and it's really nice cause it's threaded by default. Makes it really easy to keep track of a bunch of conversations at the same time.