Queen Of Coffee on Nostr: npub18ljjw…480hq It's because, culturally, women talk in a way to form/nurture ...
npub18ljjwuh8vt0lrh3fe3vsefddt40u297gtsk3d4v4ywhjnvms9zfqy480hq (npub18lj…80hq) It's because, culturally, women talk in a way to form/nurture relationships. It's our ultimate goal in communication. We are much more likely to say "Maybe we could..." or "If you think it's possible we'll..." than flat out saying what we think or want.
You'll notice most men (particularly older ones) don't do this. Culturally, for them, communication is about the content. So they will say "I think we should..." or "Let's go with..."
It's why we get mad at our husbands when we are having a bad day and want to vent and they begin offering solutions as to what we could have done differently. They want to problem solve. We want comfort. The purpose of the communication isn't the same.
You'll notice most men (particularly older ones) don't do this. Culturally, for them, communication is about the content. So they will say "I think we should..." or "Let's go with..."
It's why we get mad at our husbands when we are having a bad day and want to vent and they begin offering solutions as to what we could have done differently. They want to problem solve. We want comfort. The purpose of the communication isn't the same.