TheLegendaryMan on Nostr: I won't slip into your DMs, but I will share my story with you now. Growing up I was ...
I won't slip into your DMs, but I will share my story with you now.
Growing up I was always addicted to porn. I would spend 1-2+ hours a day looking at thousands of women until I found the right one that I felt worthy enough to cum to. Over time as society degraded and porn become much more sick and twisted. I discovered that the porn peddlers were slowly pushing all of our imaginations to desire more vile crap. Until finally I woke up one day and realized something. This is not who I am. This is not what I ever signed up for desiring. I have absolutely no need for this shit to ever invade my consciousness ever again.
Pornography gives both men and women unrealistic expectations. Both about what true wild passionate sex is supposed to be like and how we are expected to perform at all times in the bedroom. Giving us feelings of both inadequacy and involuntary negative perceptions of our lovers. Whenever they are unwilling, or physically unable to perform every sick twisted sexual act that we saw in a porno once.
This is one of the main reasons I believe why so many relationships and marriages fail. Is, because if it is so easy to go online and view pornography. Then there will always be the fantasy of someone out there better for you. Who is always ready and willing to perform every deviant act exactly as expected on demand like in the porno. Until finally the pornography mind virus infection becomes so rampant. That we toss away our lovers like yesterdays garbage, or cheat on them, because we were taught in a porno that it was ok to do too. Just as long as we don't get caught.
As someone who was cheated on by the very person who I lost my virginity to. This was a pain that always stuck with me. I should have known better than to date a model known for being a notorious slut. However even with being addicted to porn then I made a promise to myself. That no matter what happens in the future I will never cheat on any woman I am with, because no one ever deserves such immense heartbreak in their lifetime. This is a promise all men and women should make to themselves. As the very first step to ensure they do not let pornography rule over the outcome of their relationships in the future.
Fortunately I woke up years ago and realized that real men and women do not have to look at porn. They have the inner strength and courage to stay with who they love and treat them as if they were the only one in the world deserving of them. Just, because we are tempted daily by all the pretty people does not mean we have to be weak willed. We don't have to routinely pleasure ourselves to all the pretty lights and sounds coming from our computer devices.
We always have a choice. To either use our own imaginations without porn by reminiscing about our past sexual conquests, or being creative and living out fantasies in our own mind. We can also choose to stop being lonely and achieve the inner courage required to go fourth and seek out our mates too. Like the sexual animals we all are and should be until we have found the right one for us.
Sex should be about finding someone you love. Settling down and fucking babies into existence. So that way we can fulfill our natural desire to procreate. For that is what sex is and was always intended for. This is something that many men and women have forgotten. We have even been taught this is something undesirable. To that I say forget all that you have learned sexually from society and steady on.
In the end porn is like every other dangerous drug out there. Once you get clean and remove it from your life entirely. You finally set yourself sexually free from the chains that hold your consciousness from unleashing its full potential. Removing porn from your life allows yourself to get back in touch with who you are inside. As well as refocus on the relationships with real people that you have been missing out on due to pornographic brainwashing. So that way whomever you decide to be with will finally have the attention that they deserve. Both in the bedroom and in the quality time you two choose to share in a truly meaningful positive relationship together.
If you want to be a real man, or woman you need to leave porn behind forever. Find the courage within to strengthen your will power and never look back at a screen sexually again. Instead look forward to the exciting challenges that come with strengthening your current relationship, or forging a brand new one with someone worthy of your love if you are still single. If at first you do not succeed try again until you get finally get it right.
Eventually you will discover that all of this concentrated effort and focus into improving your sexuality and relationships was the healthiest decision you can ever make in your lifetime.
GN
Growing up I was always addicted to porn. I would spend 1-2+ hours a day looking at thousands of women until I found the right one that I felt worthy enough to cum to. Over time as society degraded and porn become much more sick and twisted. I discovered that the porn peddlers were slowly pushing all of our imaginations to desire more vile crap. Until finally I woke up one day and realized something. This is not who I am. This is not what I ever signed up for desiring. I have absolutely no need for this shit to ever invade my consciousness ever again.
Pornography gives both men and women unrealistic expectations. Both about what true wild passionate sex is supposed to be like and how we are expected to perform at all times in the bedroom. Giving us feelings of both inadequacy and involuntary negative perceptions of our lovers. Whenever they are unwilling, or physically unable to perform every sick twisted sexual act that we saw in a porno once.
This is one of the main reasons I believe why so many relationships and marriages fail. Is, because if it is so easy to go online and view pornography. Then there will always be the fantasy of someone out there better for you. Who is always ready and willing to perform every deviant act exactly as expected on demand like in the porno. Until finally the pornography mind virus infection becomes so rampant. That we toss away our lovers like yesterdays garbage, or cheat on them, because we were taught in a porno that it was ok to do too. Just as long as we don't get caught.
As someone who was cheated on by the very person who I lost my virginity to. This was a pain that always stuck with me. I should have known better than to date a model known for being a notorious slut. However even with being addicted to porn then I made a promise to myself. That no matter what happens in the future I will never cheat on any woman I am with, because no one ever deserves such immense heartbreak in their lifetime. This is a promise all men and women should make to themselves. As the very first step to ensure they do not let pornography rule over the outcome of their relationships in the future.
Fortunately I woke up years ago and realized that real men and women do not have to look at porn. They have the inner strength and courage to stay with who they love and treat them as if they were the only one in the world deserving of them. Just, because we are tempted daily by all the pretty people does not mean we have to be weak willed. We don't have to routinely pleasure ourselves to all the pretty lights and sounds coming from our computer devices.
We always have a choice. To either use our own imaginations without porn by reminiscing about our past sexual conquests, or being creative and living out fantasies in our own mind. We can also choose to stop being lonely and achieve the inner courage required to go fourth and seek out our mates too. Like the sexual animals we all are and should be until we have found the right one for us.
Sex should be about finding someone you love. Settling down and fucking babies into existence. So that way we can fulfill our natural desire to procreate. For that is what sex is and was always intended for. This is something that many men and women have forgotten. We have even been taught this is something undesirable. To that I say forget all that you have learned sexually from society and steady on.
In the end porn is like every other dangerous drug out there. Once you get clean and remove it from your life entirely. You finally set yourself sexually free from the chains that hold your consciousness from unleashing its full potential. Removing porn from your life allows yourself to get back in touch with who you are inside. As well as refocus on the relationships with real people that you have been missing out on due to pornographic brainwashing. So that way whomever you decide to be with will finally have the attention that they deserve. Both in the bedroom and in the quality time you two choose to share in a truly meaningful positive relationship together.
If you want to be a real man, or woman you need to leave porn behind forever. Find the courage within to strengthen your will power and never look back at a screen sexually again. Instead look forward to the exciting challenges that come with strengthening your current relationship, or forging a brand new one with someone worthy of your love if you are still single. If at first you do not succeed try again until you get finally get it right.
Eventually you will discover that all of this concentrated effort and focus into improving your sexuality and relationships was the healthiest decision you can ever make in your lifetime.
GN