LeviWritesBooks on Nostr: It's not good to form long term relationships with people who want literally nothing ...
It's not good to form long term relationships with people who want literally nothing from you, because it's a sign they don't practice interpersonal vulnerability through receiving.
The best relationships are give and take relationships, where both people speak truth about what they want and then based on that, decide practically whether a relationship, business partnership, friendship or marriage will work out.
People who only give are codependent, and people who only take are codependent. People who give and take while being up front about what they want and need are, more or less, interdependent, and that is good because they have healthy interpersonal boundaries. In this kind of relationship, both people win.
The best relationships are give and take relationships, where both people speak truth about what they want and then based on that, decide practically whether a relationship, business partnership, friendship or marriage will work out.
People who only give are codependent, and people who only take are codependent. People who give and take while being up front about what they want and need are, more or less, interdependent, and that is good because they have healthy interpersonal boundaries. In this kind of relationship, both people win.