katie on Nostr: We have different ideas about marriage, which is totally fine. The good news is that ...

We have different ideas about marriage, which is totally fine. The good news is that we all get to decide for ourselves what relationships to be in and which ones not to be. I think it’s just a bit interesting that you think you know what women, and “wives” in particular, generically “need”. Personally, marriage for me is not at all about need.

And it’s not that I have an issue looking up to someone who happens to be male. Except in the case when it comes at the expense of them looking up to me, equally, solely due to my gender.