lenazun :: evil maid on Nostr: one thing i learned from facilitating groups is that sometimes it’s much more ...
one thing i learned from facilitating groups is that sometimes it’s much more effective to say “we don’t do that here” to invoke a community norm instead of saying “i’m personally offended” because that can be attributed to you only, or “that’s wrong”, because that invites some kind of debate.
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