JackTheMimic on Nostr: I agree with the second half but for a different rationale. Men should spend their ...
I agree with the second half but for a different rationale.
Men should spend their 20's and early 30's amassing land(building a house on that land), a way to produce food, a way to gather water, and a way to produce energy. Making yourself into the man your ambition drives you to be. THEN you can create a family to sustain the legacy you have built.
Trying to build a family earlier will curtail your ambition in a effort to make you family comfortable. You won't take risks because it is no longer just your life that depends on your efforts but your wife and children.
If you build your family later your ambition will mean more to you than they do and your matriage will fall apart and your children will resent you.
Late 30's with an active man will be someone that a good woman will want to build a family with.
Men should spend their 20's and early 30's amassing land(building a house on that land), a way to produce food, a way to gather water, and a way to produce energy. Making yourself into the man your ambition drives you to be. THEN you can create a family to sustain the legacy you have built.
Trying to build a family earlier will curtail your ambition in a effort to make you family comfortable. You won't take risks because it is no longer just your life that depends on your efforts but your wife and children.
If you build your family later your ambition will mean more to you than they do and your matriage will fall apart and your children will resent you.
Late 30's with an active man will be someone that a good woman will want to build a family with.