HebrideanUltraTerfHecate on Nostr: What a mess of a society, and the dangers involved for these women in this bloody ...
What a mess of a society, and the dangers involved for these women in this bloody fertility racket. Women have been lied to about it, and their own fertility window as well, never mind the other issues at play in it all.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4g7x5kl5l8o
Ellie Lambert, who lives in Sheffield, wants to have children but says she hasn't found a suitable partner.
Two years ago, she spent £18,000 on two cycles of egg freezing. "I find it really frustrating, it's a lot of cost for something that may not ever lead to anything," she says. She hopes to use them if she meets someone, or if she reaches a financial situation where she can "go it alone" with the aid of a sperm donor. Ellie says she 's concerned about the additional financial pressure on single-parent households.
A report, external from the Child Poverty Action Group last year found the average cost of raising a child to age 18 was £166,000 for a couple and £220,000 for a lone parent.
Though Ellie thought she would meet someone by her late 20s, "despite proactively being on all of the apps, it just didn't happen." She says dating had become "fruitless", citing the seemingly endless choice that dating apps offer as a factor, with fewer people wanting to commit. But going it alone would be "a big decision", says Ellie, who earns more than £60,000 on a fixed-term contract. Having already spent her savings on egg freezing, she says it would cost a further £10,000 to use a sperm donor with IVF.
For Dami Olonisakin, a sex and relationships podcaster who lives in London, improvements in fertility treatments - such as egg freezing - are "empowering" and give women "more control than ever". 🙄
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4g7x5kl5l8o
Ellie Lambert, who lives in Sheffield, wants to have children but says she hasn't found a suitable partner.
Two years ago, she spent £18,000 on two cycles of egg freezing. "I find it really frustrating, it's a lot of cost for something that may not ever lead to anything," she says. She hopes to use them if she meets someone, or if she reaches a financial situation where she can "go it alone" with the aid of a sperm donor. Ellie says she 's concerned about the additional financial pressure on single-parent households.
A report, external from the Child Poverty Action Group last year found the average cost of raising a child to age 18 was £166,000 for a couple and £220,000 for a lone parent.
Though Ellie thought she would meet someone by her late 20s, "despite proactively being on all of the apps, it just didn't happen." She says dating had become "fruitless", citing the seemingly endless choice that dating apps offer as a factor, with fewer people wanting to commit. But going it alone would be "a big decision", says Ellie, who earns more than £60,000 on a fixed-term contract. Having already spent her savings on egg freezing, she says it would cost a further £10,000 to use a sperm donor with IVF.
For Dami Olonisakin, a sex and relationships podcaster who lives in London, improvements in fertility treatments - such as egg freezing - are "empowering" and give women "more control than ever". 🙄