Dawn on Nostr: Your # of followers will always be unstable. It's probably better to just accept ...
Your # of followers will always be unstable. It's probably better to just accept having a general idea.
In amethyst, you can add two relays to your dm inbox section, one that supports nip4 and one that supports nip17. (nos.lol & inbox.nostr.wine for example). You should recieve most of your messages that way & amethyst will automatically send your reply through whatever method the sender used. If you're the initiator, you may want to ask the recipient how they recieve messages. The incognito man is the action button to activate nip17. It might be best to depend on one client for dms until most support the same spec. Oxchat is great for messages too.
In amethyst, you can add two relays to your dm inbox section, one that supports nip4 and one that supports nip17. (nos.lol & inbox.nostr.wine for example). You should recieve most of your messages that way & amethyst will automatically send your reply through whatever method the sender used. If you're the initiator, you may want to ask the recipient how they recieve messages. The incognito man is the action button to activate nip17. It might be best to depend on one client for dms until most support the same spec. Oxchat is great for messages too.