Ben Wehrman on Nostr: Tattoos, excessive perfume, and heavy makeup are all ways women can weed out ...
Tattoos, excessive perfume, and heavy makeup are all ways women can weed out high-quality men from their dating pool, and curate a pipeline of short-term, dopamine-chasing boys.
An inch-thick of barbie doll makeup, a cloud of rose-scented artificial chemicals, or a fractal pattern on your tits will excite the pleasure center of a simple mind. But all the long-term-thinking men will see is a girl with deep insecurities, toxic ex baggage, and wrecked hormones/fertility, i.e. not serious relationship material.
My heart goes out to those who already injected themselves with graffiti before learning this, and are now finding that high-quality men no longer take them seriously.
Do the best you can with the cards you've still got, and your chances of finding a great man will be maximized. The bittersweetly good news for you is, more and more girls are increasing their addiction to ALL of the above pursuits in fakeness, so as long as you're taking good care of yourself and reducing the superficiality you have control over, you can still be ahead of the pack.
#lovestr #datestr
An inch-thick of barbie doll makeup, a cloud of rose-scented artificial chemicals, or a fractal pattern on your tits will excite the pleasure center of a simple mind. But all the long-term-thinking men will see is a girl with deep insecurities, toxic ex baggage, and wrecked hormones/fertility, i.e. not serious relationship material.
My heart goes out to those who already injected themselves with graffiti before learning this, and are now finding that high-quality men no longer take them seriously.
Do the best you can with the cards you've still got, and your chances of finding a great man will be maximized. The bittersweetly good news for you is, more and more girls are increasing their addiction to ALL of the above pursuits in fakeness, so as long as you're taking good care of yourself and reducing the superficiality you have control over, you can still be ahead of the pack.
#lovestr #datestr