mad_dentist on Nostr: I’m conflicted. I want to start using a home server for nostr and such so I thought ...

I’m conflicted. I want to start using a home server for nostr and such so I thought start9 was a great option. But they have two products one of them is server pure and server one.

Server pure is open source while weaker
Server one is closed source while stronger

Are there any alternatives for a home server I should be using? I’m learning about hosting servers at the moment