purrs_for_Her on Nostr: allow me to attempt to clarify if i'm following. to you, the only way to ...

allow me to attempt to clarify if i'm following.

to you, the only way to unconditionally love anything is to love everything of its class—it's impossible to unconditionally love a specific instance?
because by choosing a specific instance you are creating a condition?

so i can't truly love my Wife unconditionally because i don't share the same love for a random person that i don't even know exists..? or maybe another person who i know exists..?

therefore the choice or preference or whatever sets the condition.