Bigthinkingcap on Nostr: Well folks here it is.. Please don't dm me.. as I had a most unsettling experience ...

Well folks here it is..
Please don't dm me..
as I had a most unsettling experience tonight.
As a rape survivor these type of moments still trigger..
so I will keep to the tl for all conversations.

I am not one that has ever used dms..
but I thought hmm..okay let me answer this nice person's querry on mastodon maybe it won't be a dick pic or some sick knob or angry man..
as a matter of fact I was one of those on twit that had "no dms please"
Unless I knew you personally.

I think I make it quite clear that I am not interested or looking for a tryst or becoming a homewrecker by letting everyone know I am a widow very much still married in my heart.
But in case I haven't, please consider this the heralding .

I love everyone but that doesn't mean sexually. Words I would have thought never needed to be said aloud.
But here I am..

Now unsure of staying here as well..
As this now coincides with my health issues I will take it as an opportunity to step away and not be as active.

You are all so lovely and beautiful ..
Thank you for your grace,humanity and kindness
All my love, Elle

#thinkingcap2