patrick on Nostr: private relays shouldn't be forgotten. I think they will become much more common in ...

private relays shouldn't be forgotten. I think they will become much more common in fact. So, relay management should never be something clients pick for you or take from your control (looking at you Primal).
If clients slowly just steer towards hiding it from users, they'll just end up coalescing around centralization - with a finite list of 'chosen for you' relays.