annsofinovelist on Nostr: When I first got married, my husband tried to make sure I knew I could leave if there ...
When I first got married, my husband tried to make sure I knew I could leave if there were any legit reasons.
I confronted him on this, as yes, there is some truth to it, but I already picked him! I believe in the covenant of marriage! I don't need the back door wide open! Please lock it. I know it's there if it's ever needed, and I have the key, but other than that, I don't need the insecurity of the potential end to our marriage to ever even be acknowledged.
However, to your point of "need". Yes, a needy person isn't good. It's way better to be wanted. To have two individually capable people who choose to partner up together. If one is weak, the over than cover, but they take turns and work together! 🙂
That's the kind of marriage I have, and want for everyone. A committed marriage between two healthy people.
I confronted him on this, as yes, there is some truth to it, but I already picked him! I believe in the covenant of marriage! I don't need the back door wide open! Please lock it. I know it's there if it's ever needed, and I have the key, but other than that, I don't need the insecurity of the potential end to our marriage to ever even be acknowledged.
However, to your point of "need". Yes, a needy person isn't good. It's way better to be wanted. To have two individually capable people who choose to partner up together. If one is weak, the over than cover, but they take turns and work together! 🙂
That's the kind of marriage I have, and want for everyone. A committed marriage between two healthy people.