fishsticks on Nostr: I don't understand why women are so disinterested in me during 99% of the dates I go ...

I don't understand why women are so disinterested in me during 99% of the dates I go on. The most successful ones were with women who genuinely had something wrong with them (not the attractive kind) or I skipped work to hang out with them on the first date. Like they go into it with the same mood the entire time while I'm doing my best to stay high energy and attractive for fucking below mid fat women. I've tried trying too hard and just not giving a shit and everything in between. Like they're all awful people and I can't even get a second date when I deliberately ignore that.