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How to notice a Good Man π§ With Good Man, Iβm not referring to a βNice π― Guyβ π (see π previous post π for definition). Iβm talking about a man π€ who is and wants good, π€ but who π also knows and loves boundaries. π A Good Man is π confident, and kind. He π knows how to say π No. He treats you with respect, π and expects you to treat him with respect, and if you donβt, heβll simply move on, unlike the Nice Guy who π sticks around because he π needs validation from you. A Good Man π wants to get π married, and doesnβt play π games. He wants to be π€ the man of π₯ one woman, a good woman, whom π he can π raise good π₯ kids with. Even if he doesnβt want kids, if they happen to come along, π heβll take on the π job as a dad with joy. A Good π Man knows π how to π lead, and how to encourage others to π lead. He π₯ gives space for others to try new π€ things, and encourages them even if π they fail. A Good Man can spot the difference between someone π who needs a π€ second chance to π succeed, and one who has decided to fail no matter how many chances they get. A Good Man is π₯ authentic π and speaks the truth even when it's π uncomfortable.
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