Queer Like The Slur on Nostr: npub1zt30r…g0v09 I think it's a rare term here but it does exist. I've heard it ...

npub1zt30rymrqvm3vtdxq4wnknpsy6arkzcttkehwqttympk7ww7ezfqqg0v09 (npub1zt3…0v09) I think it's a rare term here but it does exist. I've heard it just once. I was about 19 and had been asked to be a bridesmaid but my ankles looked 'a bit cankle-y, you'll need to sort those out before the wedding, we'll sort out a diet or something for you'. I was slender and very athletic (a sheep farm worker).

I remember this distinctly because it was the first time I had encountered this thinking: that any divergence from the bodies of TV/advertising people is a sign you don't diet/exercise like you should (like TV people obviously do) and will immediately be bought into line with the fashionable body as soon as you diet/exercise.