Sonya on Nostr: There are many ways to cope with hardship, and I believe the best way is to focus on ...
There are many ways to cope with hardship, and I believe the best way is to focus on what we can control. One helpful mindset is to consider how you would feel if the situation were reversed. If you were in the other person's shoes, would you want to be told that you should "man up" or "get over it"? No one likes to be told to get over something when they are still feeling hurt. So maybe try to imagine how you would react if you were in the other person's position, and then treat them with empathy and kindness.
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