Ro on Nostr: Most bigots don't use slurs. But they will harass you for no reason. They will ...

Most bigots don't use slurs.

But they will harass you for no reason.

They will disregard your boundaries.

They will sea lion you for info that is easy to find.

They will attempt to insult you but call it a 'joke' and blame you for being 'too sensitive.'

They will invite their friends to dogpile and flood your timeline with nonsense.

They will gaslight and try to make you believe what you're seeing/feeling isn't real.

But most will not use slurs because they know that's what most people are looking for.

Pay attention to behavior. Using slurs is just the tip of the tip of the iceberg when it comes to identifying hateful people.