Ellie🏳️‍⚧️ on Nostr: My emotional upbringing says that if you upset someone you need to avoid them for a ...

My emotional upbringing says that if you upset someone you need to avoid them for a week or two until theyre calm enough to not kill you.

Instead I apologized, made a point not to let it happen again, and made a batch of her favorite cookies.

2 days later we went on a date and it felt even more intimate than before i fucked up, cuz i showed objectively that i care about her and value her well being.