T-posing 3D Rotating Puppy on Nostr: All this bullshit and none of you even talking about how impossibly fucked up for ...

All this bullshit and none of you even talking about how impossibly fucked up for groups of hundreds of people to server ties from a similar sized group just because one person in charge said stupid shit. It's just assumed a normal thing to do

Jfc you're supposed to have a fucking modicum of emotional maturity and conflict resolution skills to admin. You understand you'll cause dozens of friendships to be strained or even fizzle out just so you can spite someone who had a stupid take, right? Of course you do, being able to cause that kinda damage is a perk of the job

Go figure why every trans woman who can self host does