Walden on Nostr: I think a quiet reason that many men avoid marrying their long term partners is that ...
I think a quiet reason that many men avoid marrying their long term partners is that the men do not want to go through the wedding ordeal and the realities that comes with it - because for many men it means facing the facts that they have VERY FEW friends, especially compared to the woman.
While my wife had to agonize about which few friends to put in the wedding party, I had few options for groomsmen beyond my brothers, whom I am not even very close with. I see this in other weddings - the whole thing is sad and painful and forces the men to face the fact they are mostly ALONE on the world, except for the one woman who is marrying them, and the men have nobody to blame but themselves.
#responsibility
While my wife had to agonize about which few friends to put in the wedding party, I had few options for groomsmen beyond my brothers, whom I am not even very close with. I see this in other weddings - the whole thing is sad and painful and forces the men to face the fact they are mostly ALONE on the world, except for the one woman who is marrying them, and the men have nobody to blame but themselves.
#responsibility