Juliet Merida (she/they) 🚝🏳️‍⚧️🏹🎯 on Nostr: Demanding professional references from people with neurodivergent brains that make it ...

Demanding professional references from people with neurodivergent brains that make it difficult to maintain contact with former colleagues is ableist.

We are professionals who do good work and work great with people but please don't ask us to maintain social relationships which aren't meaningful to us beyond a reference. I don't want to stay "friends" with someone only because I might need them later. What an awful thing to do.

#ADHD #Autism #AuDHD