Rabble on Nostr: yeah, discord has an explicit policy of not having privacy or encryption because ...

yeah, discord has an explicit policy of not having privacy or encryption because they’re very intraventionist in terms of what’s on their servers.

I’d also recommend Matrix. Most folks don’t realize that Matrix is essencially a rewrite of XMPP created by one of the companies building XMPP software who decided to rewrite it with a new tech stack.

I also like keet.io for video calls and and tryquiet.org for messaging over Tor.