JulieB on Nostr: npub18ljjw…480hq npub18ljjw…480hq I have three kids, two from my own body and one ...
npub18ljjwuh8vt0lrh3fe3vsefddt40u297gtsk3d4v4ywhjnvms9zfqy480hq (npub18lj…80hq) npub18ljjwuh8vt0lrh3fe3vsefddt40u297gtsk3d4v4ywhjnvms9zfqy480hq (npub18lj…80hq) I have three kids, two from my own body and one from a former spouse's former spouse, who has become a good friend and we Mom our daughter together. All my kids are adults and wonderful humans and since they escaped from the Evangelical church ten years before I did, they teach me how to human better every day and are proud of my progress.
To answer your questions:
Feels so pleased at who they are - I learn from them every day. I'm grateful they've recovered from their upbringing so beautifully though they and I still have to work at it.
I had them on purpose as much as a woman under patriarchy chooses anything for herself.
I would do it again for the results of today but good golly it was hard and I wasn't very good at parenting - just so much misinformation that I fell for and so much I lacked personally. I wouldn't want to do that to more humans but I would do anything again to have the humans I have in them.
To answer your questions:
Feels so pleased at who they are - I learn from them every day. I'm grateful they've recovered from their upbringing so beautifully though they and I still have to work at it.
I had them on purpose as much as a woman under patriarchy chooses anything for herself.
I would do it again for the results of today but good golly it was hard and I wasn't very good at parenting - just so much misinformation that I fell for and so much I lacked personally. I wouldn't want to do that to more humans but I would do anything again to have the humans I have in them.