SamSnow on Nostr: But the keys are in my mind and someone who knows, can try to force me to reveal them ...

But the keys are in my mind and someone who knows, can try to force me to reveal them with a gun to my head or to the head of my family.
I know this may sound a bit paranoid (i live in a rather safe country and right now I have a shitty stack) but being ratted to local tax authorities does not seem so paranoid to me, and in any case, my question is if anyone has any tips on how to balance out the urge to discover btc to friends and family (people I care about) and the necesary caution you must have when doing self-custody