Ape Mithrandir on Nostr: My wife and I had kids early and never regretted it. Looking at 40 somethings taking ...

My wife and I had kids early and never regretted it. Looking at 40 somethings taking kids to kindergarten is grim.
As for paying for my kids after they finish college, fuck that. I love them but if they can't stand on their own feet by then, then I've failed them as a parent.
A useful way to avoid having to support grown up children, is to have enough kids that it isn't even possible to support them as grownups. If you can't support them all, then in the interest of fairness you aren't obliged to support any of them. 👍