amt on Nostr: Did all of that with my kids, to various degrees of success. How they take to certain ...

Did all of that with my kids, to various degrees of success.
How they take to certain things is up to them and their personalities (not to be confused with gender).
I believe it is important to expose them to as many different things as possible so they can (later) choose what to adopt. This creates flexible minds.
I would however add:
Learn to cook/prepare a healthy meal
Dance
Joy of reading
Skills in woodwork, metalwork, plumbing, electrics, electronics
Make your own clothes
Appreciation of beauty/art/nature
Being kind to everyone/friendly, positive, optimistic outlook on life
And most importantly: peaceful.