jackdaw, ultranormal aspect on Nostr: identity is a negotiated projection between yourself and those who perceive you. so, ...

identity is a negotiated projection between yourself and those who perceive you.

so, like all negotiations, start at a maximalist position. open with as much identity as possible. when you meet somebody new, come in hot with at least fourteen separate genders. insist that you're twenty feet tall. scream incredibly loud but act like it's a normal conversational level. let them negotiate you down from this.