joiestylotus on Nostr: There’s a BIG difference in a guy politely approaching a woman and a creepy way to ...
There’s a BIG difference in a guy politely approaching a woman and a creepy way to do it.
Like intensely staring at a woman (this happens to me often and makes me very uncomfortable), being obvious about checking out her body or making comments about her body is the WRONG approach.
You can tell a woman she’s pretty or beautiful but not comment on her body or body part. And definitely NEVER touch a stranger woman’s body parts without her permission/consent!
Most girls are taught to be polite so prob won’t do anything, but I have and will definitely hit a guy if that happens.
Buying or sending a woman a 🍷🍸🍹drink is a way to signal interest in USA by men but that prob varies in countries/culture.
Do Finnish guys do that?
But lot of girls are happy to accept free drinks, so it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s interested in guy who bought it for her.
There’s no need to come up with a cheesy line in attempting to hit on a woman, just be sincere. If she’s interested — usually it’s about physical attraction & cues at first — she’ll respond.
If a guy can make a girl laugh, that scores MAJOR points!
Personally, I’ve spoken to random guys if they seem interesting or if I like what they’re wearing, curious about a book they were reading or simply in a chatty mood and like their vibe/energy. It def does NOT mean I’m interested in dating them cuz I do that with women as well; it’s a people thing.
Oh and girls are very sensitive to scents. So I definitely notice when a guy (or person) smells good or if he’s stinky. Personal hygiene, taking showers/baths regularly and using deordant is very imporant!
And I do think phermones is a valid thing. Everyone has a natural scent and if a girl doesn’t like a guy’s natural body scent, he’s not getting anywhere with her. They’ve done studies about phermones re attraction.
Like intensely staring at a woman (this happens to me often and makes me very uncomfortable), being obvious about checking out her body or making comments about her body is the WRONG approach.
You can tell a woman she’s pretty or beautiful but not comment on her body or body part. And definitely NEVER touch a stranger woman’s body parts without her permission/consent!
Most girls are taught to be polite so prob won’t do anything, but I have and will definitely hit a guy if that happens.
Buying or sending a woman a 🍷🍸🍹drink is a way to signal interest in USA by men but that prob varies in countries/culture.
Do Finnish guys do that?
But lot of girls are happy to accept free drinks, so it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s interested in guy who bought it for her.
There’s no need to come up with a cheesy line in attempting to hit on a woman, just be sincere. If she’s interested — usually it’s about physical attraction & cues at first — she’ll respond.
If a guy can make a girl laugh, that scores MAJOR points!
Personally, I’ve spoken to random guys if they seem interesting or if I like what they’re wearing, curious about a book they were reading or simply in a chatty mood and like their vibe/energy. It def does NOT mean I’m interested in dating them cuz I do that with women as well; it’s a people thing.
Oh and girls are very sensitive to scents. So I definitely notice when a guy (or person) smells good or if he’s stinky. Personal hygiene, taking showers/baths regularly and using deordant is very imporant!
And I do think phermones is a valid thing. Everyone has a natural scent and if a girl doesn’t like a guy’s natural body scent, he’s not getting anywhere with her. They’ve done studies about phermones re attraction.