plusultra on Nostr: You just need to find a man that inspires you to follow his lead, defer to his ...

You just need to find a man that inspires you to follow his lead, defer to his judgement, and to "submit" your feminine energy to his masculine energy. Even in this case, the feminine will ultimately remain in charge, but not on the physical plane.

I think the problem is that, unfortunately, such men (and women) have become exceedingly rare in contemporary times. Men have been programmed to be feminine and women have been programmed to be masculine.

Ultimately, my attempt to make a rational argument for this is futile. You'll only understand it once you feel it, and submit to it.