Flick 🇬🇧 on Nostr: I have a very dear friend who has been in a relationship for some forty years. He’s ...
I have a very dear friend who has been in a relationship for some forty years. He’s the higher earner by far, at least partly because he encouraged her to follow her passion in a low-earning field. I’ve been incredibly worried and angry for years, because he refused to get married purely on principle because he disapproves of the concept.
His father died relatively recently, and going through all the legal stuff seems to have made him finally realise that just leaving her everything in his will is not actually as good as marriage, so they recently slipped off to the registry office and did the paperwork.
I am incredibly relieved about this, but also — as a result of a long ago and drunken conversation that I no longer really recall and had not thought of in years — the second thing out of my mouth when she told me was “Now I need to make you a cushion shaped like a toaster!”
So, if anyone happens to have a suitable pattern, please let me know.
His father died relatively recently, and going through all the legal stuff seems to have made him finally realise that just leaving her everything in his will is not actually as good as marriage, so they recently slipped off to the registry office and did the paperwork.
I am incredibly relieved about this, but also — as a result of a long ago and drunken conversation that I no longer really recall and had not thought of in years — the second thing out of my mouth when she told me was “Now I need to make you a cushion shaped like a toaster!”
So, if anyone happens to have a suitable pattern, please let me know.