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Sometimes you help the most with not helping.
We might think that when one of our loved one or friend has a problem we shall help them to solve it.
But sometimes, we will just annoy them with our help. We just overwhelm them because on top of their problem, we give them lots of ideas that stress them more instead of helping.
So sometimes better to take a step back, and only give help when it is requested.
Also in case someone has a problem, and someone else is already giving advice, our help could lead to being overwhelming more, because it will seem like that everyone is telling the person what to do, who has a problem already.
#plebchain #psychology #idea
We might think that when one of our loved one or friend has a problem we shall help them to solve it.
But sometimes, we will just annoy them with our help. We just overwhelm them because on top of their problem, we give them lots of ideas that stress them more instead of helping.
So sometimes better to take a step back, and only give help when it is requested.
Also in case someone has a problem, and someone else is already giving advice, our help could lead to being overwhelming more, because it will seem like that everyone is telling the person what to do, who has a problem already.
#plebchain #psychology #idea