Louie Mantia, Jr. on Nostr: Even if you don't feel like you *want* more than one partner, ask yourself why you ...
Even if you don't feel like you *want* more than one partner, ask yourself why you think you should have the power to limit what your one partner should be able to do. Oh, they want to kiss someone who isn't you? And you feel like you should have the power to stop that? Your feelings are getting in the way of their autonomy? Think about it.
Challenge the notion that you “should” have control over that. Question where you got that idea. Figure out how to liberate yourself from it.
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2024-02-14 07:17:47Event JSON
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