npub1zh…ggdq0 on Nostr: every single man I "dated" on "vacation" knew me or quickly found out who I was but ...
every single man I "dated" on "vacation" knew me or quickly found out who I was but only one of them was truly my favorite and we all know which one that was. everyone thought we looked cute af together. we were cute af together. he's just not a very loyal person and I need that.
I think it would have worked out better if we were closer in age or he had more relationship experience. it's hard for me to get attached to someone when there's a serious gap in maturity; granted, I've met older men who I felt weren't even as mature as him in some key ways.
seems like the core tenets of a man's ego don't actually change, so ego compatibility is actually a big deal. given all of the circumstances in my own life, I don't really need a man who completes me intellectually. I'm good on that.
tbh it's kinda hard for me to laugh hysterically at the stupidest shit with someone who has hurt me deeply. he never actually hurt me deeply because I always knew he was dealing with similar emotions to the ones I had early on when I started to realize how big and crazy everything was. I don't blame him at all for trying to keep it all inside. I have done the same and I understand the pressure and heartache.
the most important thing is companionship. like, just having fun and doing stuff together. must be able to put the phone away and be present. no more social media. as much privacy as possible.
I think it would have worked out better if we were closer in age or he had more relationship experience. it's hard for me to get attached to someone when there's a serious gap in maturity; granted, I've met older men who I felt weren't even as mature as him in some key ways.
seems like the core tenets of a man's ego don't actually change, so ego compatibility is actually a big deal. given all of the circumstances in my own life, I don't really need a man who completes me intellectually. I'm good on that.
tbh it's kinda hard for me to laugh hysterically at the stupidest shit with someone who has hurt me deeply. he never actually hurt me deeply because I always knew he was dealing with similar emotions to the ones I had early on when I started to realize how big and crazy everything was. I don't blame him at all for trying to keep it all inside. I have done the same and I understand the pressure and heartache.
the most important thing is companionship. like, just having fun and doing stuff together. must be able to put the phone away and be present. no more social media. as much privacy as possible.