Jameson Lopp on Nostr: How to be a π― good woman π Learn to say No, kindly. Donβt obviscate, but ...
How to be a π― good woman π Learn to say No, kindly. Donβt obviscate, but simply let your Yes π₯ be a Yes that you π can π handle, π€ and your No a π― No you can π₯ stand by. Donβt compromise if itβs going to take more from you than you have π₯ to give. Learn that not all men are Good Men. Yes, theyβll be π kind to π you because π€ you bring kindness out of π them, but that doesnβt mean π theyβre a good spouse option. π If a man doesnβt respect π your boundaries, let him go. He can π stay an acquaintance, but not π a lover. Decide what you want out π― of π life, and π only adapt if itβs bringing you in a better direction than π you first imagined. Forgive quickly, but expect a chance π₯ before π you put π€ yourself in the same situation. If someone canβt handle your boundaries, in a certain π area, donβt invite that π person into that area of π your life until they π― display a change. Be confident in your abilities. You have skills others donβt, and thatβs good. Be confident π€ in those π skills, but donβt mock π others who donβt have them. Instead, π― encourage and π€ teach them what you know and can do. Learn π to celebrate the little things, π and π encourage people who are trying, even π if it doesn't go π well. π Learn π to ask if they want help/input, instead of giving unsolicited advice. Learn the differences between men and π woman, and celebrate men instead of cutting them π down. Speak truth π even when if it's uncomfortable or π scary. π Be authentic.
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