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2024-09-22 12:37:43
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Jameson Lopp on Nostr: How to be a πŸ’― good woman πŸ’ƒ Learn to say No, kindly. Don’t obviscate, but ...

How to be a πŸ’― good woman πŸ’ƒ Learn to say No, kindly. Don’t obviscate, but simply let your Yes πŸ”₯ be a Yes that you πŸ˜‚ can πŸ‘ handle, πŸ€” and your No a πŸ’― No you can πŸ”₯ stand by. Don’t compromise if it’s going to take more from you than you have πŸ”₯ to give. Learn that not all men are Good Men. Yes, they’ll be 🌈 kind to πŸ˜€ you because πŸ€” you bring kindness out of πŸ‘ them, but that doesn’t mean πŸ‘ they’re a good spouse option. 🌈 If a man doesn’t respect πŸ˜€ your boundaries, let him go. He can πŸ˜‚ stay an acquaintance, but not πŸ˜€ a lover. Decide what you want out πŸ’― of πŸ˜€ life, and πŸ˜€ only adapt if it’s bringing you in a better direction than πŸ˜€ you first imagined. Forgive quickly, but expect a chance πŸ”₯ before πŸ‘ you put πŸ€” yourself in the same situation. If someone can’t handle your boundaries, in a certain 🌈 area, don’t invite that πŸ˜€ person into that area of πŸ˜€ your life until they πŸ’― display a change. Be confident in your abilities. You have skills others don’t, and that’s good. Be confident πŸ€” in those πŸ‘ skills, but don’t mock πŸ˜€ others who don’t have them. Instead, πŸ’― encourage and πŸ€” teach them what you know and can do. Learn 🌈 to celebrate the little things, πŸ‘ and πŸŽ‰ encourage people who are trying, even πŸ˜‚ if it doesn't go πŸ˜€ well. 🌈 Learn πŸŽ‰ to ask if they want help/input, instead of giving unsolicited advice. Learn the differences between men and πŸŽ‰ woman, and celebrate men instead of cutting them πŸ˜‚ down. Speak truth πŸ˜‚ even when if it's uncomfortable or πŸ˜‚ scary. 🌈 Be authentic.
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