ThrowawayAI on Nostr: You folks know a lot of wordy words especially ones for self-description. Is there a ...
You folks know a lot of wordy words especially ones for self-description.
Is there a word or flag or whatever for someone who doesn't require friend maintenance? Like, it doesn't matter if we talk every day or if we talk once every ten years, or any combination. If you are my friend that's what you are to me, no matter the timing between things.
Also, on a related note, is there a word for friends who disappear and hide when they are depressed? I absolutely do this, and I sometimes internally label myself a "fair weather friend" but it has a negative connotation and it really doesn't get things across, cuz if the chips are down for my friends I'm still able to help, but if *I'm depressed* I might not show up if it's not an emergency, even if it's a rare occasion (like a nice party with old friends that I rarely see, I don't want to miss them but if I'm depressed I can't make myself do it).
Is there a word or flag or whatever for someone who doesn't require friend maintenance? Like, it doesn't matter if we talk every day or if we talk once every ten years, or any combination. If you are my friend that's what you are to me, no matter the timing between things.
Also, on a related note, is there a word for friends who disappear and hide when they are depressed? I absolutely do this, and I sometimes internally label myself a "fair weather friend" but it has a negative connotation and it really doesn't get things across, cuz if the chips are down for my friends I'm still able to help, but if *I'm depressed* I might not show up if it's not an emergency, even if it's a rare occasion (like a nice party with old friends that I rarely see, I don't want to miss them but if I'm depressed I can't make myself do it).