🎀Udon🥛 on Nostr: >To get someone I wouldn’t even truly crave I would have to become something that ...
>To get someone I wouldn’t even truly crave I would have to become something that gives up a lot of things that make me who I am.
To be blunt, that is exactly what a relationship is, you both have to compromise. Ideally you have enough things going for you that you don't have to compromise on too many things and you can make her compromise on the things you want, but there's a lot of things that you just don't get to argue (it's biological).
Porn lets you get "everything you want" without having to change yourself in anyway, that's the problem with porn.
To be blunt, that is exactly what a relationship is, you both have to compromise. Ideally you have enough things going for you that you don't have to compromise on too many things and you can make her compromise on the things you want, but there's a lot of things that you just don't get to argue (it's biological).
Porn lets you get "everything you want" without having to change yourself in anyway, that's the problem with porn.