thattommyhall on Nostr: I've fallen foul of the "I wasn't asking directly for help" thing here. I see lots of ...

I've fallen foul of the "I wasn't asking directly for help" thing here. I see lots of complaints about it so half expected it when I commented in the hope having had the same thing for longer might be useful data.
Wonder if something about the platform just surfaces other peoples convos more or if there is a wider cultural thing now where if someone says "I have problem X" you are just supposed to mutely file away the new fact