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"Rash choices build a future of regrets."
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Some decisions must withstand the test of tomorrow.
How does that work?
If you feel tired or confused when making a decision at the end of the day, trust that intuition. It's very likely you'll make the worst choice among the options.
And the next morning, you'll realize what you've done.
When tired, we always lean towards the easiest decision. However, convenience doesn't always mean itâs favorable.
For example, if you're hungry, you might order fast food. You could choose a meal resembling your usual dinner in nutrients, but you'd likely opt for something processed, high in sodium and fats.
"Once in a while, whatâs the harm?" None, of course. Your money, your health. But be aware of what will follow.
The day after tomorrow, that decision repeats. Later, what was once an exception becomes a habit. Once a month turns into three times a week.
Where am I going with this? Imagine your neural pathways for decision-making as reins. The more logical, complicated decisions you make, requiring a balance between the right choice and convenience, the firmer those reins become, and the more control youâll have in all aspects of your life. However, when you let life carry you without resistance, without exercising your decision-making abilityâalways leaving it to the last moment to pick from the worst optionsâthe reins loosen, and you lose control one area at a time.
A once tight, strong rope now drags on the ground.
This is the constant tug-of-war between you and destiny. And youâre losing.
My father used to say: if something canât wait for your decision, then it wasnât meant for you.
We must fight with every conscious effort to reject within ourselves that weak and indecisive side, incapable of making a simple decision. Yet, when the strong are too tired to fight, the weak will try to take over. Never give them space under any circumstances. If you're unsure about making a big decision now, resolve it when the day breaks, and your mind will be clearer. And if someone tries to pressure or rush you into a decision, itâs because that choice wasnât meant for you.
Wait until the next morning to see things in a new light. Let the strong side decide. And the weak side will grow quieter and quieter.
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Some decisions must withstand the test of tomorrow.
How does that work?
If you feel tired or confused when making a decision at the end of the day, trust that intuition. It's very likely you'll make the worst choice among the options.
And the next morning, you'll realize what you've done.
When tired, we always lean towards the easiest decision. However, convenience doesn't always mean itâs favorable.
For example, if you're hungry, you might order fast food. You could choose a meal resembling your usual dinner in nutrients, but you'd likely opt for something processed, high in sodium and fats.
"Once in a while, whatâs the harm?" None, of course. Your money, your health. But be aware of what will follow.
The day after tomorrow, that decision repeats. Later, what was once an exception becomes a habit. Once a month turns into three times a week.
Where am I going with this? Imagine your neural pathways for decision-making as reins. The more logical, complicated decisions you make, requiring a balance between the right choice and convenience, the firmer those reins become, and the more control youâll have in all aspects of your life. However, when you let life carry you without resistance, without exercising your decision-making abilityâalways leaving it to the last moment to pick from the worst optionsâthe reins loosen, and you lose control one area at a time.
A once tight, strong rope now drags on the ground.
This is the constant tug-of-war between you and destiny. And youâre losing.
My father used to say: if something canât wait for your decision, then it wasnât meant for you.
We must fight with every conscious effort to reject within ourselves that weak and indecisive side, incapable of making a simple decision. Yet, when the strong are too tired to fight, the weak will try to take over. Never give them space under any circumstances. If you're unsure about making a big decision now, resolve it when the day breaks, and your mind will be clearer. And if someone tries to pressure or rush you into a decision, itâs because that choice wasnât meant for you.
Wait until the next morning to see things in a new light. Let the strong side decide. And the weak side will grow quieter and quieter.
Thank you for reading this far, dear friend!
If this message helped you in any way, consider leaving your glass "đ„" as a token of appreciation.
A toast to our family!